When you’re going through a divorce and looking for an attorney, remember that you don’t have to hire the first attorney you meet. Choosing the right lawyer to guide you through your divorce is one of the most important divorce-related decisions you’ll make.
A good divorce attorney can provide you with an overview of the law, the process, and some of your options moving forward. When you finally do choose an attorney and you meet with them for the first time, it’s important to provide as much background information as possible so they can help identify what’s best for you and your situation.
- Be transparent about your marriage
Although it may be difficult to reveal personal details about your marriage, it’s important to inform your attorney of every matter and issue. Remember, these matters are confidential and your attorney is someone you can trust with this information. Whether your marriage involved struggles with infertility, infidelity, addiction, or financial suffering, every facet of your marriage can impact your divorce settlement.
- Be honest about your finances
Don’t leave your attorney in the dark about your assets. Be straightforward about your finances, and your divorce attorney will be better able to help ensure a more promising financial future for you. Concealing your financial matters can cause more issues in the long run.
- Be organized
Be sure to gather all the paperwork and evidence possible, which can be very overwhelming. Get organized at the start by budgeting time, designating folders, or even hiring help to manage divorce responsibilities and daily life.
- Ask questions
When you first meet with your attorney, take the opportunity to gather as much information as possible. Don’t hesitate to ask questions. Take advantage of the free legal advice with the attorneys you interview. The initial meeting is a place to find out which attorney fits you and your case best. Choose someone you are comfortable with and can trust.
- Plan for the future and know what you want
Divorce is very difficult and stressful for a multitude of reasons, especially if you have children. During this painful process, remember to take a step back when needed and try not to get too caught up in the drama of divorce. It’s important to consider not only the present, but also consider what the future may hold for you, your ex partner, and your children—relocation, tax considerations, your child’s education, and so on. Think about what you’ll expect from your ex in the future. Inform your attorney on these plans and decisions so they can help you settle your divorce fairly and with no regrets.
Divorce is already trying enough without having to worry about the complicated and time-consuming legal process. We specialize in family law at Rieger, LLP and are devoted to providing strong and compassionate legal guidance to the Long Island community. With an office located in Garden City, we represent clients all over Long Island and the surrounding areas. Contact us or give us a call today to discuss your specific situation.